Dance is essentially another form of expression. For many young boys, however, properly expressing themselves can be a difficult task. But mastering a routine – and being able to perform that routine in front of an audience – gives boys the confidence they need to feel comfortable in social situations and to feel genuine respect for the other boys and girls that they dance with.
All of the regular benefits of dance that apply to girls also apply to boys. In addition to improved concentration and focus, increased gross motor skills, a boosting of one’s self-confidence and improved physical fitness, dance also encourages self-expression. Being able to poignantly transmit artistic intention is something available to all dancers. Having advanced technique, discipline, and dedication allows a dancer to use dance itself as a language with which to communicate.
Dance Extreme understands that boys move differently than girls, and that boys are hardwired to explore gross motor movements differently than girls. They enjoy the physicality of dance and friendly competition in their classes.
Sitting down with two Dance Extreme boys who dance competitively, we discovered that, for them, dance provides personal fulfilment. When you pursue a hobby or passion, it must give us a special sense of purpose and meaning.
“I dance because I like it, and I make great friends here,” says Ryan Dodge, 12, who has been dancing at Dance Extreme for the past seven years – with an additional year before joining the studio. “Everyone is supportive of each other, and I’m lucky I have the opportunity to dance because a lot of people cannot.”
Another aspiring dancer, 9-year-old Michael Antaran, loves dancing and puts his heart and soul into all of the styles in which he trains. Antaran says that he dances “because it’s fun and I get to make friends, and everyone is nice.”
Not only is it fun, but both boys enjoy the physicality of dance. Both Dodge and Antaran were first introduced to the studio as young brothers watching their older sisters in dance classes and performing on stage.
If you are considering dance for your son or grandson, here are a few things to consider: Dance Extreme recommends watching a class or two, as it allows you to observe the styles of dance and the method by which children are instructed. There are many different styles of dance, including ballet, jazz, hip hop, tap, break-dancing and so forth. Try to gauge if your son would be most comfortable learning a more formal style or whether they would excel at freestyling. There is no right answer, and it is fine for a child to attempt different styles until they find their ideal one.
Dance Extreme offers trial classes throughout the year and during the summer months. We offer drop-in or Fall & Winter session classes, which are a great way to try out different styles. Take advantage of these opportunities to see how your son reacts.
While playing sports may be a major part of our boys’ lives, we should also encourage them to enjoy the many creative, social and emotional joys of dance. Giving them an opportunity to dance – and the confidence to enjoy it – is a gift that will last them a lifetime.
By Richelle Hirlehey for Dance Extreme
